What is

Self Acceptance?

“For a long time, it had seemed to me that life was about to begin, real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin, at last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life” – Alfred D Souza

Is this you? Because it used to be us!

Waiting for the right moment, waiting for payday, waiting until we felt better, we just generally felt like until we got rid of the shit in our lives we couldn’t start living!

Welcome to the bolluxnbull voice in your head that tells you constantly, you can’t get rid of the shit in your life. Well we are here to show you that you can still have shit in your life and fun all at the same time!

Yeah, we know that sounds crazy, and we also know it’s true. So bear with us and stick around because we can help show you how to.

We are not personal development, yes we have done a lot of personal development. We found it to be jumping up and down, fist punching to the ceiling shouting how amazing you are, how you can do this shit and life is great. Well don’t get us wrong, we are amazing and we can do this shit and life is great. However, we struggle sometimes jumping up and down about it because it doesn’t always feel great!!

We discovered (clue is in the word!) a better way and that way is simply about accepting ourselves. Because when we do, we can choose to feel happy, choose to feel good, and accept the way we are. So, then we are able to have a good old giggle about ourselves when the shit hits the fan.

We accept that shit still happens, but we can choose how we react and feel about it. We also realised we all have a negative voice in our heads that on a daily basis is a bloody nuisance. And we can choose not to listen to it and that’s much more fun!

You see change is all about just seeing things differently and when we begin to see things differently then things begin to change!

If all this sounds like a load of bolluxnbull we just ask you to humour us for a bit, stay a little open minded and have a look around at what we do.

If you don’t like it all, you might just find something the tweaks your curiosity, and we love a bit of tweaking. Lol

You see we have everything we need to be happy inside us, we carry it with us every day like we would our luggage. It’s just we are programmed to believe it’s the stuff outside that makes us happy, and it might for a short time, but it never lasts a long time.

Imagine you carried everything in a heart suitcase rather than carrying it in a head case, (that made us giggle). So, everything you need is in that heart case, everything you need has been there all the bloody time! We don’t need to call it our baggage, we need to call it our party bag (full of cheap shit, cake and also full of fun!) By changing the language we use we can lighten the load.

It’s simply all about accepting ourselves for who we really are.

Yes, we are unique, amazing beings AND we are all flawed humans… And that’s OK!